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Day 4162 - Adolescence

I’ve always had my own insecurities and confidence - more insecurities when I was an adolescent. As I grew older some of them remained and some vanished. Others just went quiet. However, those insecurities have resurfaced again as my kids are nearing that age. Even though, I have prepared myself for these times both mentally and emotionally - to be present, to listen, to guide, to simply understand - to the best of my ability. But it’s turning out to be much harder than I expected - and I’m not ashamed to admit I feel a bit lost.

Sometimes, I can’t even grasp the lingo they use. The words feel foreign, the pace too fast, the meanings layered in ways I don’t fully comprehend. I feel, their insecurities are shaped by pressures we never faced—endless comparisons, digital validation, the fear of being left out offline and online. And often, in trying to relate, I end up translating their experiences through the lens of my own youth. But in doing so, I realise—I’ve completely lost the plot. This isn’t my adolescence. It’s theirs. And it’s a different world altogether.

Watching Netflix’s Adolescence shook me. Last night, I started it at 11:30 PM, thinking I’d watch a single episode. I finished the entire four-part series by 4:00 AM—restless, unsettled, moved.

I was uncomfortable throughout—not because the story was unrelatable, but because it hit so close to home. Every interaction between the father and the son felt painfully relevant. Every conversation struck a nerve. Every consequence was portrayed with clarity and conviction. I loved every frame, every scene. The father-son dynamic, the connections, the missed cues, the silent cries for help—it all felt eerily familiar. It was like watching my own fears, hopes, and confusion unfold onscreen.

The creators have taken a bold, timely subject and handled it with care: social media addiction, the constant need for online and offline validation, cyberbullying, and the fragile, shifting identity of being a teenager today. These are issues we can no longer ignore.

The series deserves a full 5 out of 5—not just for what it tackles, but how. The cinematography is intimate and immersive, using single shots to intensify the emotional weight. The storytelling is honest, layered, and incredibly well-paced. The performances are phenomenal—every actor brings rawness and depth to their role - justifying their inclusion.

Adolescence isn’t just a show—it’s a mirror. One that reflects not only the kids we’re trying so hard to understand, but also the parts of ourselves we’ve forgotten or buried. It’s uncomfortable, necessary, and deeply powerful.

A must-watch. Highly recommended.

#adolescence #insecurities

March 15, 2025 at 4:57PM

Day 4154: Say ‘Hi’!

After a little break, Bhakta Band is back with a fresh lineup but same soulful vibes! I’ll be in the audience for the first times, soaking in the music and cheering on these talented guys. If you're around, come say ‘Hi’.

Let’s make it a night to remember!

#bhaktaband

March 7, 2025 at 4:55PM

Day 4146 - Au Revoir

We met in the most casual way— at an event. Somewhere between dropping off drums for the hirer, I blurted out, "Call me to jam, I play bass!" And just like that, I was in Bhakta Band.

One jam led to another, and before we knew it, we had eight original bangers under our belt and played some of the most iconic Nepalese gigs in the UK. Our chemistry was undeniable—fueled by endless banter, late-night meet-ups, and that magical, unspoken groove only true bandmates understand.

Together, we created music, laughter, chaos, and a lifetime of memories—each one crazier, louder, and more unforgettable than the last.

But all good things come to an end. After filling my soul (and probably annoying my friends, family and neighbors) with countless jams, it’s finally time to hang up my G-strings (Guitar strings—get your mind out of the gutter, you perverts!).

Au revoir, my lifelong brothers. These incredible moments will live in my heart and mind… at least until Alzheimer’s decides otherwise.

OK, for now let me dump 1st batch of the pictures that we have.

#bhaktaband

The new line up is performing next week Saturday, 15 March 2025! Please support the boys.

https://www.ticketsource.co.uk/stanwell-studio...

March 6, 2025 at 4:50PM

A crisp, cold night in Kristianstad—serene, refreshing, and a quiet beauty.